Should I Stay or Leave My Job?

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Disclaimer: Intended for entertainment purposes only - Seek medical or professional advice from Doctors or certified professionals before making any health or personal choices.

Should I stay or leave? This question haunts millions of people. This 6-card tarot reading helps you make the right career decision by comparing both paths, revealing hidden opportunities, and giving wise guidance for your professional future.

This 6-card spread provides comprehensive insights into your work situation:

Card 1: Current job satisfaction truth
Card 2: If you stay: 6-month outlook
Card 3: If you leave: 6-month outlook
Card 4: Hidden opportunities you’re not seeing
Card 5: What’s meant for your career growth
Card 6: Advice on the wisest decision for your path

Focus on your work situation, draw your cards, and receive personalized guidance for this important decision.

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Why This Question Is So Hard

“Should I quit my job?” is one of the most stressful questions you can ask yourself. Why? Because:

Financial security is at stake
Your professional identity is tied to what you do
Fear of the unknown paralyzes you
Guilt (“Shouldn’t I be grateful?” “What about my team?”)
Self-doubt (“What if I’m making a mistake?” “What if it’s the same everywhere?”)

This reading exists precisely to help you navigate this complex decision with clarity and confidence.

How to Use This 6-Card Reading

Position 1: Current Job Satisfaction Truth

This card reveals how you REALLY feel, beyond what you tell others or even yourself.

Positive cards (Sun, Nine of Cups, Four of Wands):

You’re more satisfied than you think
The problem might not be the job itself
You could be looking for an excuse to leave for other reasons

Negative cards (Ten of Swords, Five of Pentacles, Nine of Swords):

You’re deeply unhappy, beyond simple dissatisfaction
The situation is affecting your mental/physical health
It’s time to listen to this pain

Stagnation cards (Four of Swords, Hermit, Hanged Man):

You’re bored more than suffering
You need change but not necessarily departure
Maybe you need new responsibilities in current role

Conflict cards (Five of Wands, Seven of Swords, Three of Swords):

Relationship problems dominate your experience
Someone is making your life difficult
Toxicity rather than the work itself is the issue

What this means:

If positive card appears and you still want to leave = Dig deeper. What are you really running from? Fear of commitment? Need for constant novelty? Personal issues being projected onto work?

If very negative card appears = Permission to leave. You’re not making up your misery. Start planning your exit.

Position 2: If You Stay - 6-Month Outlook

This card shows where you’ll be in 6 months IF you stay at this job.

Growth cards (Eight of Pentacles, Three of Pentacles, Ace of Pentacles):

New skills being developed
Recognition coming
Promotion or raise possible
Signal: Stay, but ask for what you want

Stagnation cards (Four of Pentacles, Seven of Pentacles, Two of Swords):

Same situation, slightly worse
You’ll still be waiting for it to get better
Growing frustration
Signal: Leave in 3-6 months if nothing changes

Burnout cards (Ten of Wands, Nine of Swords, Ten of Swords):

Complete burnout
Health compromised
Collapse imminent
Signal: Do NOT stay, this is dangerous

Intensified conflict cards (Five of Swords, Tower, Three of Swords):

Toxic situation worsens
Betrayal or major conflict coming
Drama inevitable
Signal: Leave before it gets worse

Neutral/patience cards (Temperance, Hermit, Justice):

Situation improves slowly
Changes coming but take time
Signal: Stay if you can handle 6 more months

Important: This card does NOT show fate. It shows where current energy is heading IF you change nothing.

Position 3: If You Leave - 6-Month Outlook

This card shows where you’ll be in 6 months IF you leave now.

Freedom/renewal cards (Ace of Wands, Fool, Star):

Exciting new beginning
Better opportunities await you
Liberation from weight
Signal: Change will be positive

Transition struggle cards (Five of Pentacles, Eight of Cups, Two of Pentacles):

Financially difficult period
Hard but necessary adjustment
Uncomfortable transition but leads somewhere
Signal: Leaving is doable but prepare financially

Regret cards (Five of Cups, Four of Cups, Seven of Cups):

You’ll regret this decision
Grass isn’t greener elsewhere
You’ll realize what you had
Signal: Stay and work on current situation

Same problem cards (Five of Wands, Seven of Swords, Nine of Swords):

Same issues, different environment
You’re taking the problem with you
Repetitive patterns
Signal: Work on yourself before leaving

Transformation cards (Death, Judgement, World):

Major life-wide change
Not just job, complete reinvention
Chapter ends, new begins
Signal: Time for big change

Comparing Cards 2 and 3:

This is WHERE the magic happens. Compare the two paths directly:

If Card 2 (staying) negative AND Card 3 (leaving) positive = Leave NOW

If Card 2 (staying) positive AND Card 3 (leaving) negative = Stay and improve your situation

If BOTH negative = The problem is YOU, not environment. Work on yourself first

If BOTH positive = Free choice! Both paths lead somewhere good. Choose by personal preference.

Position 4: Hidden Opportunities You’re Not Seeing

This card reveals what you’re MISSING in your current situation or near future.

In current job:

Ace of Pentacles/Wands = New position opening soon in your company
Six of Pentacles = Someone wants to sponsor/mentor you
Three of Pentacles = Collaborative project coming could change your experience
Eight of Pentacles = Training/new skill available you’re ignoring

External opportunities:

Wheel of Fortune = Timing for change is now
Magician = You have skills to start own business
Two of Wands = Offer coming soon from unexpected place
Page of Pentacles = Going back to school or certification would change everything

Blocks you’re not seeing:

Seven of Cups = You’re too focused on unrealistic dreams
Four of Pentacles = Your financial fear keeps you stuck
Eight of Swords = You’re limiting yourself with false beliefs
Hanged Man = Need to change perspective before making decision

How to use this information:

Before deciding, EXPLORE this card. If it shows opportunity in current job, request conversation with manager. If it shows internal block, work on that first.

Position 5: What’s Meant for Your Career Growth

This card reveals which path serves your MAXIMUM GROWTH, not necessarily maximum comfort.

Mastery cards (Eight of Pentacles, Three of Pentacles, Nine of Pentacles):

You’re meant to master specific skill
Deep expertise more important than variety
Stay and become best in your field

Entrepreneurship cards (Magician, King of Pentacles, Ace of Wands):

You’re meant to work for yourself
Leadership and autonomy are your path
Start planning your business

Exploration cards (Fool, Knight of Wands, Eight of Wands):

You need VARIETY and NOVELTY to grow
Frequent changes are part of your path
Don’t feel guilty for wanting to move

Service cards (Queen of Cups, Six of Pentacles, Hierophant):

Your work must have MEANING beyond money
You grow by helping others
Seek work aligned with values

Transformation cards (Death, Tower, Judgement):

You’re in period of ENTIRE major change
Career is just part of larger transformation
Release old to embrace new

Conflict with desire:

If this card shows staying but you want to leave = Universe says “Not yet, there’s a lesson here first”

If this card shows leaving but you’re afraid = Universe says “You’re ready, jump”

Position 6: Advice on the Wisest Decision

This card gives SPECIFIC ACTION to take.

Immediate action advice:

Ace of Wands/Swords = Make decision now and act
Chariot = Move forward with clear plan
Strength = Have courage to do what you know is right
Eight of Wands = Move quickly, momentum is with you

Patience advice:

Hanged Man = Wait 3 months before deciding
Four of Swords = Take vacation first, decide after
Temperance = Negotiate gradual changes in current role
Hermit = Take time for deep reflection alone

Preparation advice:

Two of Pentacles = Start looking while still working
Seven of Pentacles = Build skills/savings before leaving
Nine of Pentacles = Ensure financial security first
Page of Pentacles = Get training/certification before moving

Release advice:

Death = Let go completely, start fresh
Eight of Cups = Leave without looking back
Tower = Quick break better than slow agony
Ten of Swords = Accept it’s over and move on

Negotiation advice:

Justice = Ask for what you deserve (raise, conditions, flexibility)
Hierophant = Talk to HR or mediator
Three of Pentacles = Propose new work structure
King/Queen of Pentacles = Negotiate from power position

Clear Signs You MUST Leave

Certain card combinations are absolute red flags:

🚩 Imminent Burnout

Card 1: Ten of Wands, Nine of Swords, Ten of Swords
Card 2 (staying): Tower, Ten of Swords, Nine of Swords
Card 6: Eight of Cups, Death

Interpretation: You’re on the edge of collapse. Staying will cause health damage. Leave NOW.

🚩 Environmental Toxicity

Card 1: Seven of Swords, Five of Swords, Three of Swords
Card 2 (staying): Devil, Tower, Five of Swords
Card 4: Eight of Swords (trapped in victim mentality)

Interpretation: Environment is toxic. People are manipulating or betraying you. Your mental wellbeing is in danger.

🚩 Complete Stagnation

Card 1: Four of Swords, Hermit (not chosen position but boredom)
Card 2 (staying): Four of Pentacles, Seven of Pentacles
Card 5: Fool, Ace of Wands (need change for growth)

Interpretation: You’re dying slowly professionally. Growth requires movement.

Clear Signs You SHOULD Stay

✅ Imminent Growth

Card 1: Seven of Pentacles (patience bearing fruit)
Card 2 (staying): Three of Pentacles, Eight of Pentacles, promotion
Card 4: Positive hidden opportunities

Interpretation: Your time investment is about to pay off. Wait 6 months.

✅ Grass Not Greener

Card 3 (leaving): Five of Pentacles, Five of Cups, regret
Card 2 (staying): Neutral or positive

Interpretation: Problem isn’t environment but expectations or yourself.

✅ Timing Not Right

Card 6: Hanged Man, Temperance, patience advised
Card 4: Opportunities coming IF you stay

Interpretation: Not time to leave. Something coming soon changing perspective.

Specific Questions to Consider

“My boss is the problem”

Look at Card 4 particularly. Often shows:

Internal transfer possible
Your boss leaving soon
Your power to change dynamic you’re not seeing

If Card 4 shows no solution AND Card 1 very negative = Leave

“I’m bored but job is stable”

Look at Card 5 (growth):

If shows need for stimulation (Fool, Eight of Wands) = Leave
If shows mastery (Eight of Pentacles) = Find new challenges in current role

Card 6 will say how:

Ask for new projects
Look while working
Negotiate role change

“I want to leave but I’m scared”

Compare Cards 2 and 3:

If Card 3 (leaving) shows negativity = Fear is founded, stay
If Card 3 (leaving) shows positivity = Fear is irrational, jump

Card 6 will show how to handle fear.

“I have an offer elsewhere, should I accept?”

This reading becomes:

Card 2: Stay at current job
Card 3: Accept new offer

Compare directly for decision.

After Your Reading: Action Plan

If Reading Says “Stay”

Immediately:

Identify 3 things that would improve current work
Schedule conversation with manager in 2 weeks
Give yourself deadline (ex: if no improvements in 3 months, reevaluate)

In 30 days:

Ask for what you want (project, raise, flexibility)
If refused, start looking passively

In 90 days:

Reevaluate if changes have been made
If not, activate job search

If Reading Says “Leave”

Phase 1: Preparation (1-2 months)

Update resume
Save 3-6 months expenses
Network discreetly
Identify transferable skills

Phase 2: Active Search (2-3 months)

Apply actively
Interview during lunch breaks/time off
Negotiate offers

Phase 3: Transition (1 month)

Give professional notice
Finish projects cleanly
Maintain positive relationships

Urgent (if toxic/dangerous):

Talk to HR if harassment
Document issues
Seek legal if necessary
Leave without new job if health in danger (with survival plan)

If Reading Says “Wait”

During waiting period:

Work on personal/professional development
Build skills
Network
Save money
Clarify what you really want

Redo reading in:

3 months if card says patience
6 months if major transformation in progress

Common Mistakes to Avoid

❌ Leaving on Emotional Impulse

Sign: Big fight at work, you want to quit immediately

Why mistake: Emotional decisions often regretted

Do this: Wait 72 hours, then redo reading with clear head

❌ Staying Out of Guilt

Sign: “But they need me” “I’d be leaving my team”

Why mistake: Not your responsibility to save company/team

Do this: If Card 5 shows leaving for growth, honor that

❌ Ignoring Health for Security

Sign: Cards show burnout but you ignore due to financial fear

Why mistake: Health worth more than any salary

Do this: If health compromised, leave with minimal survival plan

❌ Searching for Perfect Job

Sign: You refuse to leave until finding “dream job”

Why mistake: Dream job often doesn’t exist

Do this: Look for “good enough” to escape toxicity, perfect later

❌ Ignoring Repetitive Patterns

Sign: This is 3rd/4th consecutive job you want to quit quickly

Why mistake: Problem is you, not jobs

Do this: Therapy or coaching before next change

Hard Truth About Job Changes

Leaving doesn’t solve:

Self-esteem issues
Procrastination tendencies
Relationship difficulties
Fear of failure/success
Need for external validation

Leaving CAN solve:

Toxic environment
Lack of growth opportunities
Bad values/culture fit
Unfair salary ceiling
Dangerous work conditions

The grass is greener where you water it—but sometimes, the soil is so toxic nothing grows, and then yes, move.

Final Wisdom

Your job is NOT your identity. It’s an exchange: your time/skills for money/experience.

You owe your employer nothing beyond doing the work you’re paid for.

Your loyalty should be to your wellbeing and growth, not to a company that would replace you in 2 weeks.

The “right time” to leave doesn’t exist. There’s “good enough time” and “must leave now”.

Trust the cards. They see what fear and guilt prevent you from seeing. 💙

And remember: Quitting isn’t failure. Staying in a situation that’s destroying you is the failure. 🌟