Will My Ex Come Back to Me?

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Discover if your ex will return with this honest 6-card tarot reading. Learn the real likelihood, approximate timing, influencing factors, and what’s truly best for you.

This 6-card tarot spread is carefully designed to provide comprehensive insights into your situation:

Card 1: Will they come back?
Card 2: Current state of their feelings
Card 3: What’s influencing their decision
Card 4: External factors affecting reunion
Card 5: Most likely outcome and timing
Card 6: Advice on what’s in your highest good

Simply focus on your question, draw your cards, and receive personalized guidance tailored to your unique situation.

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How to Interpret Your “Will My Ex Come Back?” Reading

This reading is different from “Does My Ex Want Me Back?” because it focuses on the actual probability of return, not just their feelings. Here we analyze external factors, timing, and the most likely outcome.

Understanding Each Card Position

Position 1: Will They Come Back? (Direct Answer)

This card gives you a clear Yes, No, or Maybe answer. It uses 7 specific cards to determine probability:

Positive cards (Ace of Cups, Two of Cups, The Lovers, The Sun) = High likelihood
Neutral cards (Wheel of Fortune, Justice, The Chariot) = Depends on future actions
Negative cards (Three of Swords, The Tower, Ten of Swords) = Low likelihood

Position 2: Current State of Their Feelings

Although the first card gave you a Yes or No, this position reveals why. Do feelings still exist? Are they confused? Have they emotionally closed off? This card helps you understand the emotional foundation behind their decision to return or not.

Position 3: What’s Influencing Their Decision

Here you discover the internal factors weighing on their mind: fear of failure, wounded pride, hope for a better relationship, advice they’ve received, or simply emotional exhaustion. This card shows what most influences their decision-making process.

Position 4: External Factors

This is crucial. Even if they want to return, external factors can prevent or facilitate it:

New partner (theirs or yours)
Geographic distance
Family or friend pressure
Financial or work situation
Life timing (studies, relocations, etc.)

Position 5: Most Likely Outcome and Timing

This card combines all previous information and gives you the most probable outcome. It can also indicate timeframes:

Fast cards (Knights, Eight of Wands, The Magician) = Weeks or 1-2 months
Slow cards (Four of Swords, The Hermit, Two of Pentacles) = 3-6 months or more
Closure cards (Death, Ten of Swords) = No timing because it won’t happen

Position 6: Advice on What’s in Your Highest Good

Here the tarot guides you on what you should do regardless of whether they return or not. Sometimes the advice is to wait, sometimes to move forward, and sometimes to work on yourself while giving space. This card prioritizes YOUR wellbeing, not just reconciliation.

Key Differences: “Do They Want Me Back?” vs “Will They Come Back?”

It’s important to understand these two questions:

“Does my ex want me back?” = Focus on internal feelings and desires
“Will my ex come back?” = Focus on actual probability and external factors

Example: Your ex may WANT to return (strong feelings) but WON’T return (they’re in another relationship, moved abroad, or your family strongly opposes).

Interpreting Key Card Combinations

Combination 1: Yes in Position 1 + Positive Cards in 2 and 5 = High probability of reconciliation. Feelings are there and no major obstacles exist. Favorable timing.

Combination 2: Yes in Position 1 + Difficult Cards in 3 and 4 = They want to return but face significant obstacles. Reconciliation is possible but will require time and patience to overcome barriers.

Combination 3: No in Position 1 + Ace of Cups in Position 2 = Feelings still exist, but external factors or conscious decision prevent return. It’s not a “no” due to lack of love.

Combination 4: Maybe in Position 1 + Change Cards in 3 and 4 = Situation is in flux. Your actions and future circumstances will determine the outcome. Nothing is set in stone.

Combination 5: No in Position 1 + Closure Cards in 5 and 6 = Definitive answer. The tarot suggests acceptance and moving forward. Insisting will only cause more pain.

Signs of High Return Probability

If you see these cards in key positions (1, 2, or 5), probability is high:

The Sun: Renewal, clarity, new positive energy in the relationship
Two of Cups: Strong mutual connection, desire for reconciliation from both sides
Six of Cups: Powerful nostalgia, good memories driving return
Ace of Cups: New beginnings in love, renewed feelings
The Star: Hope, wound healing, fresh perspective
The World: Complete cycle, ready for a new chapter together

Signs of Low Return Probability

These cards in positions 1, 4, or 5 indicate serious obstacles or closure:

Ten of Swords: Absolute ending, deep betrayal, irreparable pain
The Tower: Necessary destruction, impossible to rebuild on those foundations
Three of Swords: Associated pain is too great to overcome
Eight of Cups: Conscious walking away, seeking something better
Five of Pentacles: Feeling better alone, relationship represented lack
The Devil: Toxic patterns, codependency better not revived

Most Common External Factors (Position 4)

If The Hierophant or Three of Pentacles appears: = Family, friends, or counselors are strongly influencing their decision. Social pressure.

If reversed Two of Cups or Three of Cups appears: = There’s a third party involved (new partner, interfering friend).

If Four of Pentacles or Five of Pentacles appears: = Financial problems or stability issues are affecting their ability to resume the relationship.

If Eight of Wands or The Chariot appears: = Physical distance, travel, relocations are complicating reunion.

If Justice or The Emperor appears: = Legal matters, child custody, or formal agreements are involved.

Timing: When Return Could Occur

Fast Timing (1-8 weeks):

Eight of Wands, Knights, The Magician, Aces of any suit
Indicates energy is in active movement

Medium Timing (2-4 months):

Threes and Fours of any suit, Pages, Temperance
Situation requires time to develop

Slow Timing (4-6+ months):

The Hermit, Four of Swords, The Hanged Man, Kings and Queens
Long process of reflection and healing necessary

No Timing (Won’t happen):

Death, Ten of Swords, The Tower in position 5
Closure is definitive

What to Do Based on Results

If the reading indicates “Yes, they’ll return”:

Don’t seek them immediately - Let energy develop naturally
Work on yourself - Use this time for personal growth
Address the issues that caused the breakup
Maintain dignity - Don’t appear desperate
Prepare emotionally - Ensure YOU want this reconciliation

If the reading indicates “Maybe” or conditions:

Identify obstacles shown in cards 3 and 4
Work on what you can control - Your behavior, your healing
Give it time - “Maybe” situations need to evolve
Don’t force - Pressure can turn a “maybe” into a “no”
Keep options open - Don’t put your life on hold

If the reading indicates “Won’t return”:

Accept the message - The tarot is being compassionate by giving you clarity
Begin grieving - Allow yourself to feel the pain to heal
Cut contact - No contact is essential to move forward
Seek support - Friends, family, therapist if needed
Focus on your future - New goals, new interests, new love eventually

Specific Frequently Asked Questions

What if Card 1 says “Yes” but Card 6 suggests moving on?

This means that although they would technically return, it’s NOT best for you. The tarot is prioritizing your long-term wellbeing over the immediate gratification of reconciliation. Listen to this advice.

Can I do anything to change a “No” to a “Yes”?

Depends on cards 3 and 4. If obstacles are internal (your behavior, their healing), there’s room for influence. If they’re external (another partner, permanent relocation), your power is limited. However, working on yourself is always valuable.

What does it mean if all cards are contradictory?

Indicates the situation is complex and in flux. Feelings exist but so do obstacles. The future isn’t determined and will depend on future decisions and events. Revisit the reading in 4-6 weeks.

If it says “No” now, can it change later?

Yes, especially if definitive closure cards (Death, Ten of Swords, Tower) don’t appear. A “No” today can be “Yes” in 6 months if both change, circumstances change, or significant growth occurs. But don’t live waiting for that change.

Should I contact my ex based on this reading?

Only if Card 6 (Advice) suggests action and Card 1 was positive. If either suggests waiting or closure, respect that message. Timing is crucial - premature contact can ruin future possibilities.

Common Interpretation Mistakes

Mistake 1: Ignoring external factors Many focus only on feelings (Card 2) and ignore real obstacles (Card 4). Both are equally important.

Mistake 2: Confusing “wanting” with “will return” Your ex may want you and not return. These are different things.

Mistake 3: Not listening to advice Card 6 exists for a reason. If it says “move on” but you only see the “Yes” in Card 1, you’re missing the most important message.

Mistake 4: Waiting passively If cards suggest working on yourself or resolving problems, reconciliation depends on you doing that work, not sitting and waiting.

Mistake 5: Reading too frequently Wait at least 3-4 weeks between readings on the same topic. Energy needs time to move and change.

When to Repeat This Reading

Repeat the reading if:

4+ weeks have passed since the last one
There was a significant change (your ex contacted you, ended another relationship, you moved, etc.)
You’ve done the internal work the cards suggested
You have new information about external factors

DON’T repeat if:

You just want a different answer
Not enough time has passed
You haven’t done anything to change the situation
You’re seeking validation instead of guidance

Combining This Reading With Others

For maximum clarity, you can complement with:

“Does My Ex Want Me Back?” - To better understand their internal feelings
“What Are They Thinking About Me?” - To know how they currently perceive you
“Healing from Heartbreak” - If the result was negative and you need guidance to move forward

But wait at least 24 hours between different readings to process each message separately.

Understanding Your Role in the Outcome

If external factors are blocking reunion: Your influence is limited but not zero. Sometimes removing yourself from the equation changes their perspective. Sometimes patience allows external situations to resolve naturally.

If internal factors are blocking reunion: You have more power here. Working on personal growth, demonstrating change, or giving healing space can shift the energy significantly.

If the outcome is uncertain: This is where your actions matter most. The universe is showing you that YOU are a co-creator of this outcome. Choose wisely what energy you want to put into the situation.

The Highest Good Principle

Notice that Card 6 asks “what’s in your highest good” - not “what will make you happy right now.” Sometimes these are different things.

Your highest good might be:

Moving on even though you still love them
Waiting even though you’re impatient
Working on yourself even though you think the problem was theirs
Reconciling even though you’re scared
Staying apart even though feelings exist

Trust that the tarot sees a bigger picture than your current emotional state allows.

Remember: This reading gives you probabilities based on current energy, not absolute certainties. The future is built with daily decisions. Use this information to make wise choices, but never put your life on hold waiting for someone to return. Your happiness and personal growth are most important, whether they return or not.

The universe always conspires for your greatest good, even when it doesn’t feel like it in the moment. Trust the process and trust yourself.